A friend mentioned that they were surprised Chuck didn't advise me to go more dark. I said I was surprised too. I think from other stories I've read here, that's what either the coach or folks on the forum have advised. I can't tell if it worked or didn't work for them.
I told Chuck I wasn't sure what to do. This situation has me perplexed. Do I give up? Do I even still want to stand for my marriage? Will it be worth it? Lots of questions...no real answers.
