Hi labug! Well it has been a great week. I understand your concern. The difference this time is that i have stopped trying to control everything. I feel like i am in a different place and i am letting go. In turn she has made up her mind that we are suppose to be together and wants us to be a family again. I am certainly happy about it and also very relaxed about it. No more desperation and it feels good.
Yesterday was our anniversary and we let the kids at home and went out to celebrate. She told me some of her feelings and how glad she was that we were back together. The best thing said was "you know that i never really left you".
Yes i know i cant stop working on myself and i need to make sure she is able to be her own person and does not become consumed by our relationship and lose herself again.
I will keep you updated and thanks again for all your support!
M-45 W-44 2D - 11&13 2SS - 11&17 Married 10/10/10 Bomb 3/5/12 Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12 Back together 9/12 Seperated 6/13 Divorce Final 11/13/13