IF the PA is not a deal breaker for you, then I would agree with cutters approach.
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I feel we cant move on until the A is exposed and she states to me that she wants to work on us.
I think you answered your own question above. YOU FEEL as if you cannot move foward unless the A is exposed.
Personally, I would take a slightly differnt approach, especially since you seem to be making progress, I would schedule your next date/trip at the same time she is slated to be with OM. IF she cancel the trip with OM, well then that should tell you something, especially if it is followed with her ending it on her own with OM, which will require some level of snooping but in your case, I think knowing is probably the best way to db it. If she does not end it with OM after your trip, then I would, when it makes sense for YOU, confront her.
In terms of how to confront her, I think Cutter and Starsky are SPOT on in terms of how to do it!
That's my 2 cents.
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