I would think that he should not have assumemd that you would be available, could be partly ego driven on his part that he expects you to be just available, and whether or not he was a control type of person during your marriage would also figure into my opinion.

Having said that, the bottom line is would showing any displeasure visavis him not asking your availability serve your long term goal, whatever that is? Its a cost/benefit type question. Hope a guys opinion here helps,
Gunny


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