I hear what she is saying and I agree with her that her actions must follow her words.
She seems to be saying all the right things.
A marriage is 50/50 and you can not expect it to work if you are giving more than 50% and she is not giving her 50%.
So all I am saying is to understand that all is not always as it seems. Her love for you should not be dependent on how much love you give her. It should be unconditional. The same for you.
I wish you all the luck and good fortune in the world. And I agree that you should read those two books at a minimum.
