'Hard to say' is how I would respond to your question about her behavior, as well. There has been a definite warming in our attitudes toward one another for several weeks now. It is the issue of intimacy and physical affection in general that seems to be a sore spot. She will be cold then suddenly hot and then back to cold again in this department. All other areas of our lives are back to some semblance of normal. Except that when asked she still can not tell me that she loves me. But I am not asking again for now. ( her affair was almost entirely emotional and long distance, I think that she went as far as kissing him in the one encounter that they had.)
