I was wondering, why does she keep saying she makes you "pissy?" Is this part of her complaints? Is this an excuse she gives herself for continuing the R with the OM? Have you reacted with anger when in the past she said something you didn't like? I used to get so offended when my H said something rude to me (or that I considered rude.) He said he couldn't be himself bc he had to watch what he said around me, that he could tease his buddies and they didn't get mad. That was one of his complaints.
