I'm trying to come up with more 180 ideas but I'm struggling.
Instead of coming up with ideas, which are based on trying to illicit a response from her. Why not come up with ideas of things that you really want to do for YOU.
For example - is the getting up for you son something that you would do if the R was on good terms? Sometime, I'm sure you would..but it seems like you are suggesting that you would do this everyday, which to me means that you are doing it to get her back. Wrong motive IMO.
And FTR, I am not saying you should not try to get her back...I just think that the changes that you do REALLY need to be for you. For example, if you were the type to come home, plop down and watch TV everyday - yet you aspire for more than this...well then that is a 180 change.
Another example ;
Chores - are you doing all of the housework so that she can "see" your changes OR are you doing housework becuase you acknowledge that you too have a responsility to do this. If you are doing all of the house work, personally I would stop doing HER part of it.
Also, what are you doing to have FUN in your life? What are you doing to create some excitment for YOU? What hobbies do you have? What hobbies do you want to have?
I guess my point is....think BEYOND JUST HER..and really think about YOU and what YOU WANT.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
