Well, H finally moved some of his stuff out after leaving 2 months ago. Even though I knew this day was coming, I almost died when I got home from work and saw the things missing. He still has a lot of things here and I am just patiently waiting for a lightening bolt to hit him and turn things around. I never know he is coming (he comes to pick up his mail too), he just sneaks in when I'm at work so he doesn't have to face me.
We have only spoken once in two months and several texts all initiated by him. I know I shouldn't pursue, but I just feel like I am sitting here and letting this happen. We have so little contact that I feel he will never see the positive changes in me or ever change his mind. I am afraid to contact him at all for fear that I will push him away.
Anyone have advice on how to initiate positive contact to keep the communication lines open? I don't want to talk about R or pursue, just have contact so that if he wants to talk he knows I am here and open to that. We have no kids, so really nothing to make contact for.
M: 38yo, H: 44yo Together:10yrs Married: 6yrs No kids BD 8/15/12 H walked-out 8/18/12
