AnotherStander, you are so right! Giving her the space while she's still in the house is better than forcing her out the door by smothering her. I'll find something to do on Sunday. She doesn't need to know what I do... It'll just add to my AS-IF attitude.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done