Ok, whoa! Hold the phone! He's hacking your email and online accounts? You didn't confront him? WTH? That is a massive invasion of privacy.
You have got to stand up for yourself. He is abusing you and you are letting him. Why? Like AS said, you need to remind him that he breached YOUR trust, not the other way around so there is absolutely no cause for him to be treating you like this.
Sorry, I'm a little disgusted with him at this moment.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!