W and I have 3 children, and it was/is rough on them...I can't imagine the worry you feel, being gone from the house with 2 jobs and all. There were times I would have to take the younger ones away from the house to get them away from the craziness...
I had to start, without telling W, a separate account in my name only (and it still is until this gets resolved somehow) and split my direct deposit 70% mine - 30% joint...and I removed her from other some other joint accounts.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
