Thanks for responding AnotherStander...I think you are absolutely correct. The obsessing has gone to another level. He saw me reading DB posts last night and asked me when I was gonna stop reading this type of stuff. All he saw was the Divorce portion listed in the heading. I told him it was self-help for me. He left and went into our game room to listen to some music. It was obvious that he wantede to be alone. He was acting as if he was grieving over the situation or maybe something happened btw H and OW. I'm not sure b/c I did not ask. I figured he wanted to be alone so I simply told him goodnight and went to bed. I awoke during the night to find him fishing on the site. I noticed he even accessed my email account and possibly obtained my PW to view my posts. He is a hacker and I'm sure he viewed my history. Now I will have to change my username because he knows that Lapoo is my nickname. Jeezz...I thought I would enjoy a restful night but I could not sleep well knowing what he was doing but I didn't say anything this morning to him about it. He was distant and didn't have much conversation. I fixed coffee, gave him a kiss on the cheek, told him to have a nice day and left for work. I will continue to press forward despite the turn of events. If he did read my posts then he will understand how deeply hurt I am and how much I am will to invest in saving our relationship. He will also know that any changes I've made are not temporary but for myself w or w/o him.
