The DB road is a long and lonely path with the idea that it is ultimately worth it. Either your DB succeeds and your relationship becomes better than it ever was, or it fails. But either way, the idea is that you come out a better person in the end and learn tools that help you with YOURSELF and future relationships.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done