Drew

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Can you tell if they're wearing a pink tutu?

Yes but you need SKYPE. Lol

Kimmerz
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Living authentically also means Im letting what happened go

Kudos to YOU Kimmerz. Letting go, really does free you!


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I completely understand how and why we got to this point.

And this ^^^ is a true blessing for you.

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I think what bothers me though is that I do still love this man.

And chances are YOU always will love him. IMO, you guys spent 21 years tighter and have two daughters. It could not have been all bad. I found that for a while I wanted to “rewrite” history myself, I wanted to demonize my XW (not too much different than what they do to us). In some ways, I know I needed to, in order to get through the anger. But like you I too have really learned to understand how we ended up where we did.

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still inspires me to rebuild a relationship with him.

Awesome. If you decided to pursue something you now have MUCH better tools at your disposal.


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans