My STBX wants to come back. After 2 years !!

[Shelby]

Thanks Everyone,
I needed to hear your opinions and advice.

I plan on taking this very very slow. He could just be feeding me the lines he thinks I want to hear. And although these are things I wanted to hear years ago. Now I need to see it, not just hear it. He has to prove it. He didn't want to work on the marriage before he left even though I tried. I need to see that he is willing to do the work not just hear him say it.

I haven't said anything to my girls. My oldest is still angry towards him from leaving and the way he did it.

Whatever happens this will take a long time to figure out and honestly i dont know if he would be up for the work, he wasn't before. I'm just going to sit back and see if I see that he is willing to prove himself and do the work.

Counseling would be a first step and honestly we probably could use it even if we don't get back together.

Thank you again. Any other opinions/ advice Is greatly appreciated.