As you can see…you ALWAYS send her some sort of answer – hence she will continue to contact you.
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Maybe I shouldn't have even responded, but I did.
Ya think…
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It's all very weird.
Actually know it is NOT…..it really is quite simple. FTR, this is my opinion as I am not in HER head..
She feels guilty for her actions, so she reaches out to you to “gauge” where you are at. She also need “something” from you to let her know that you are okay. Why? Chances are it helps her sooth the guilt. If you are “okay”…then she did the right thing. If you were not okay…well then YOU were the one with a problem.
She will continue to touch and feel ……UNTIL YOU STOP RESPONDING…but then again, you really want to do that. Right?
Your next question then is probably….what about OM? Here is the thing, 1 – you probably should not give a chit but since I know you do, I’ll take another stab at mind reading…. I suspect that she has painted you as a sad, lonely, still in love with her man, who is also the father of her children – so just may explain to OM, that she needs to check on the father of her children to make sure you are not depressed and suicidal.
I would say that you fall for it everytime Tad.
Why not try this…..STOP RESPONDING to ANY TEXT from her. Only respond if the kids are sick.
Oh…..you never answered my questions on my last post. Then again that has been the pattern, you respond briefly and then your post get right back to what SHE is doing.
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