Well, I'm about done with this R. I know it's counter to DB but I really don't have the commitment of marriage here and financially I'm being destroyed. Even in DB there's the idea of "ask for what you want" and there's an example in the book where a woman says to her husband that she doesn't want to live like brother/sister b/c she wants and needs sex. I know it sounds like I have a one track mind here but really, with a gf, what's the point if we aren't spending any time together and we aren't having sex?
