Tad, quit asking why.

There is no answer for why they do these things.

Will it help you to know my XH who I haven't seen or spoken to or heard from for a year now did the very same thing?

He was living with OW all comfy in his new life and emailed to tell me that a very obscure writer he knew I liked had a new book out that I might want and that she'd be giving an interview on NPR.

I got hopeful after I read that email from him for about a week or so till I realized it was like some sort of flare from his la-la land and meant absolutely nothing.


M45
Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11
Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy
"Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying