beginning my journey of DB

[Cadet]

I can tell you there can always be HOPE but NO EXPECTATIONS.

As long as you can protect your HOPE then it remains inside of YOU.
However you must DETACH and LET GO in order for this to happen.
If you do not do this then your hope will be destroyed along with your EXPECTATIONS.

As far as your identity, you must find that on your own without him.
You do not depend on another for YOUR identity.
That you carve out by yourself.

Part of this script is for them to destroy everything that you have known.
The house right now is on FIRE.
Dont stand around inside of it.
Take whatever small things you need and get out.
Those small things can help you rebuild a new house somewhere else.

I hope this makes sense.