This guy needs a serious 2 x 4. To think that my behavior was influenced only by my character and not by anything that was going on in the R at the time is completely small minded. I feel like I constantly hit a brick wall with him. He certainly is sticking to his own timeline and I just have to learn to be more patient and not push. But he really seems dead set on his own point of view and not being open to any possibilities. What a shame for all of us.
OMG This is EXACTLY how my H is. It is the most frustrating thing. My situation is different in that his problem is I never paid him any attention. But the result is the same. Even when it is obvious he still has feelings and of course misses me and the kids. Still won't come home. Won't try and avoids all conversation regarding any sort of reconciliation.
I wish I had some advice. You might ask him again in a different way. Maybe like... Did you think anymore about that weekend together?
