Wow, thanks T2. I haven't heard my wife say that I was the problem for quite a while now. This gives me some hope. It sounds like our wive's have similar issues.

She's not in love with me of course, and doesn't see us staying married, but that's another story.

Sorry this post wasn't about you sunny, but T's post spoke to me.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl