[quote=someguy1233]Here's the question . When she talks, listen intently. Don't be distracted. Make eye contact. Lean forward. Nod. Ask a question here and there. Validate any emotions she talks about, "wow, that sounds frustrating. I'm sorry to hear you're going through that." Make it about her as much as you can.
^^^^^^good stuff AS, got it someguy?
Looking at our brief conversation when I got home, I think I was so concerned about acting AS-IF that I didn't validate. Sigh. So much to learn and remember to apply in the moment.
Wanna say I felt the same that I was so concerned about the as-if that I didn't validate! So much to learn and apply!
