Hi TG- your sitch is very similar to mine. My H started a EA that resulted in a PA. He stopped the PA but says he stills talks to OW occasionally, whatever that means. He can be moody and often acts like he's in some type of withdrawal. Every so often he talks about moving out but has not taken any steps to do that. Sometimes when he is sulking, I wish he does. He complains of not knowing what's wrong with him, needing space, not sure what he wants, in love with OW,etc..then he switches gears and tells me how much he loves me. sometimes I don't how much I can take so read posts like yours and know that I'm not alone. I'm sure they were sex ting but I don't know if the flame is still hott. I give him his space and work hard at getting a life for myself.