http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2288258&page

Link to previous thread above.

Still chugging along. Found out H is taking some of his mom's stuff from her house since they are cleaning it out and he is storing it at OW's house. My sixth sense tells me he is using her, but it's not my problem.

I was rewarded with a nice raise at work, so that's a positive. I will need everything I can get. Lol! On another interesting note I called the appraiser to come out and look out at the house. H wanted to do it tomorrow since we have a mediation appointment anyway. I told H that it was too short notice and I couldn't take more time off this week. He wasnt happy that I didn't give in but I stuck to my guns. He then told me to have the appraiser come in next week and when I reminded him he was going to be gone he said he didn't have to be there. That seems odd to me. Why wouldn't he want to be there? And when the appraiser talked to me he was a little upset with H. Apparently H told his lawyer that the appraiser had not contacted H yet and so H's lawyer contacted the appraiser asking why he hadn't contacted H? I told the appraiser that H was supposed to contact him, not the other way around. The appraiser said that's what he thought to but was glad I confirmed it.

Glad I am not the only one who sees this stuff.


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"