.... is what my H said to me over the summer when he revealed that he was dating from an online dating site. Oh, and he only dated separated women. I wanted to know who they were, and he said, "it's none of your business." "Okay," I said, "but I don't believe in dating while you're separated. After all they and you are still married." He replied, "I don't care what you believe." Alright, I thought to myself, I will only deal with what is my business from his POV, the children and our finances. And, getting that divorce. My subject heading has become a chant in my head whenever I'm about to ask him something, I think, "it's none of my business." Unless it is. Then I come down on him like a ton of bricks.
I asked him to leave about a month ago, but he still hasn't found his own place. The drama that caused. Oy!
In the meantime, he is away again. I like having him absent nowadays. I get on with my life, without worrying about what he's doing on his business trips. He can do whatever he likes. If some poor woman wants to hook up with him, good luck to her.
On Oct. 29, we go to the lawyer and start the process of divorcing. I am very keen to get it over and done with. I do have my own life, and am enjoying my courses. I have no interest in dating, but am keeping myself open to the possibility sometime in the future. If I meet someone, then I meet someone ... not going onto any dating sites. Although, who knows ... I may change my mind.
We are planning on selling the house ASAP, but there's a lot of work still to do.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
