Agree with all the comments about your posts, Arsene. You've helped me a lot too. And it's true, it does get better with time. At times I thought I wouldn't be able to survive the pain, but I did. And now, even though there's nearly no hope for my M, I feel at peace bc I was patient and did everything I could to turn things around.
As long as you feel that there is hope, then there is hope. So hang in there. And remember, when someone is "in love" with an OP, they're just blinded by their confusion. It's not real love. My H wrote this super long love letter to the OW, drew a picture (which he never did for me bc he is not artsy at all) and said he loved her and blah blah, and two months later he didn't want to have anything to do with her. He said he had absolutely no feelings for her, and I know he was telling the truth. So there. I hope this helps! Tori
