Sitting on the Blanket

Print Thread

Re: Sitting on the Blanket Jack_Three_Beans #2288184 10/10/12 08:20 PM
Joined: May 2012 Posts: 2,595 B bustingout OP Member
OP bustingout Member B Joined: May 2012 Posts: 2,595	j3b...you got me sitting here at my kitchen table, blubbering like a fool.... i wish i had better words to try and say this....the support and encouragement and BELIEF in me that you give me....i cannot express how truly and deeply grateful i am...how blessed i feel that you are in my life. :-) I want you to be happy, unlike the people who tell you to move on? I want you to give it your best shot first; then give it your next best shot and then your third. If you decide not to be married, I want you to never regret that choice. this is what got me blubbering. thank you. you help encourage me to keep going for what I believe in and not let the passing emotions determine my path. It might not be your husband, but you have raised the bar on who you let into your life. It very well could be your husband. If it is your husband, it is tough on a whole different level. : ) It's not milk and honey. That is when trust issues get to be dealt with, because he actually did hurt or break your trust. i guess either way, the bar has been raised. Hadn't thought about that before in that way. For the past several days (or maybe even weeks now) i can see how if we get to appoint where real trust is addressed again, it will be tough...for both of us actually. i guess its the commitment that would pull a couple through that... You also made a vow, so do your best to live up to that vow, for you and your kids...and; guess what? Him. yes i see that...especially the him part, no matter how weird that sounds given the sitch. i understand what you mean. when i think about it, right now, the vows are what i am committed to. The M is in shambles, but the vows are clear. And i believe in them. A question I asked myself in the middle of all of this: "Would she give up on me?" It kept me going. Well.....when i first read this i thought 'he did give up on me!' but....its not the same is it? if he had seen me as in need, lost, confused, needing my own journey as i see him right now...if he was where i have gotten to right now, and i was where he was right now? i would like to think he wouldn't have given up on me. its because of where i am that i am not ready to give up on him. j3b, one day, i would love to buy you a drink...heck, i would buy you a bar and name it after you if i could! The doldrums of DBing... and this...as soon as i read it, i realized that indeed i am in a process. :-) Thank you j3b ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( j3b )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home

Entire Thread
Subject	Posted By	Posted
Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 06:39 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Breakdown	09/25/12 07:01 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 07:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 07:17 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/25/12 07:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 08:32 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	longrun	09/25/12 08:40 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	figure-it-out	09/25/12 09:19 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/26/12 12:34 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:24 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	JustStunned	09/26/12 08:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	09/26/12 09:37 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:15 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:34 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/27/12 08:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 09:12 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	09/28/12 01:17 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 12:19 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/28/12 03:06 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 03:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/28/12 04:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 09:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	09/28/12 09:53 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/28/12 10:33 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	09/29/12 02:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 05:09 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:00 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	09/29/12 07:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 07:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 07:29 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:48 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	09/30/12 12:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/30/12 12:46 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 04:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 04:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	09/30/12 06:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 07:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	09/30/12 11:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/01/12 01:10 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/01/12 05:21 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/01/12 05:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/01/12 06:22 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/01/12 01:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	10/01/12 01:59 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/01/12 07:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/02/12 05:03 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/02/12 01:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 05:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/02/12 05:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/02/12 05:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 06:17 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 06:24 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/02/12 06:27 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 07:13 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/02/12 07:53 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/02/12 08:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/03/12 10:04 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/03/12 07:38 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/03/12 08:28 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/06/12 06:02 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/06/12 07:38 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/08/12 07:33 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/08/12 08:43 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/08/12 09:22 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/08/12 09:32 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/08/12 09:34 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	10/09/12 02:04 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	jks	10/09/12 06:31 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 08:02 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 06:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/09/12 08:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/10/12 01:02 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/10/12 03:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 05:01 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/10/12 05:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/10/12 06:13 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Cadet	10/10/12 06:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/10/12 06:37 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:22 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	10/10/12 09:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	jks	10/10/12 09:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/12/12 08:20 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/12/12 11:32 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:05 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:24 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:48 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/13/12 07:03 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 09:47 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Cadet	10/13/12 10:15 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 10:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/13/12 01:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/13/12 04:48 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	10/13/12 05:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	10/14/12 12:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/14/12 03:59 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/14/12 05:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/14/12 03:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/14/12 06:05 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/15/12 01:52 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Wendylon	10/15/12 07:20 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/15/12 10:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/13/12 05:06 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 04:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 04:52 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	10/09/12 07:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 07:05 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/06/12 08:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/07/12 04:44 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	10/07/12 05:18 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/07/12 03:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/06/12 08:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/02/12 06:28 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 07:16 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 06:49 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 06:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 06:46 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:10 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	09/27/12 12:17 AM

Moderated by Cadet, DnJ, job, Michele Weiner-Davis

Link Copied to Clipboard

Divorcebusting.com Forums Open Forums For Newcomers Sitting on the Blanket