Ed, don't beat yourself up over indecision... Taking time to carefully think things through and get advice is a GOOD thing!
And i am very, very grateful to have such generous and much wiser allies here for me to lean on.
I have not responded yet.
She is probably stewing at the delay. No, i am not mind reading, but she can be very impatient and build up a major resentment.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012