Just curious, why didn't you want to wear your new wedding ring/gift, AND why did you tell her that?
I'm not trying to bash you here, I promise. But as you can see (now) that was pretty clueless. I know you "get it" now.
But that begs the question. What was your reasoning at the time? Even if you didn't think a ring was a worthy expenditure, (b/c maybe you are super practical and or broke) but why tell HER that she could take her gift back and return it? Why not just wear it to please her, and leave it at that?
Are you sure you were not angry about something? I'm not saying for sure you were angry or that you are in "denial", but it's a pretty huge signal to miss.
So Just Give it some thought.
If it turns out you just blew it big time and or you have zero antennae for the "SOS" or red flares your w launched into the universe,
then give some thought to
other signals she might have sent in the past OR is sending now
that you might also be missing.
Good luck
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