More patience??? Really???

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Thank NG & JKS, wouldn't dare claim these attitudes come easy, but I feel they are the right ones to help me through this. I think the detachment helps me look at her with more empathy becasuse it helps me to remove myself out of the equation. When I focus on my impacts from this, it leads me to the resentment & anger. (which is still a struggle at times).

Half way through the bachelor week. W is very limited in her communication. She is not calling at all. She will send a pic of the kids every once in a while but that's about it. I call my W's phone each evening to talk with the kids but I communicate directly with the kids via txt.

We will most likely not have our homework done for our MC session on Monday. I'm curious how that will impact our conversation. The homework was about coming up with idea to do recreational things for just the 2 of us. A concern I have is tha tif she is not really engaged in this homework then is she really engaged to actually spend more time together? A part of me thinks she needs to go to IC on her own to help her deal with the MC, but she has been reluctant to actually do this.