Thanks for the words of encouragement. I have read some of your postings and admire your resilience.

I don't doubt there is much that I don't see in my sitch, and probably much that I don't want to see as well.

My issue with today's exchanges involve the fact that I do not have extensive postings and judging the nature of my particular iceberg by the "tip" I reveal here is insulting. It would have been helpful if Eric's first contact had perhaps questioned, asked for clarification etc.

I will continue to stalk the posts and journal on my own. Best of luck to you, hope your days get easier and sunnier.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.