Wifes name, so i don't let you wait without reply, i am waiting for advice from a counselor Eddie has seen. Inconsistency is detrimental to him. Over the summer, you went 97 days with only 1 period of seeing our little boy. I have offered you many occasions to be more involved in his life over the months, even offering to leave you guys alone, but you often either did not respond or had plans with friends that you deemed more important than changing plans to spend time with Eddie. You have changed so severely from who you were before your mom got sick and you started drinking so much. Alcohol and partying with friends became more of a priority than your family, especially your only child. When your sister finally forced you to get back in touch, you agreed that Parenting Counseling would be a very good idea. You abandoned your family and deserted your son without any consideration to help support him for nearly 8 months. You are missing out on many of his daily and life accomplishments due to having your priorities for yourself instead of your only flesh and blood son. You have walked away from the 2 people who loved you more than anyone else in your entire life due to decisions you made during severe depression and thinking clouded by alcohol. Maybe this IS the Real You, rather than the wife and Mommy that you once so desired to be. You liked to be a home-body and according to what you wrote 2 months before your mom got sick..... You wrote, "When i die, i want to be remembered for being a good wife, a good mom and a good friend". How do you think you have done over the past 3 years and 9 months? You have your entire life ahead of you to improve your grade and still have a positive influence on Eddie.
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012
