Thanks for stopping in, AC. It's good to hear from you.
Yes, it is hard to watch. TBH, I see another side of this, too. My W continues to appear to be on track for some serious health issues down the road. Not saying I won't have any, but she's doing a lot of things wrong. Now I wouldn't have turned my back on her if it was up to me. However, since she is still pursuing a D, she may be in effect relieving of that liability. You can't help someone who doesn't want help.