1. The last few times he has used the PC he has deleted all of this internet history form the PC. The first time I noticed this I really tried to ignore it now it has gone one for the last 3-4 times he has used the computer. I am debating on installing a keylogger. I am conflicted here as I do not want to "Spy" but his lack of communication is having its toll.
Your H says he's done and wants to separate, right? I guess my question would be what you hope to gain or learn through spying. How does it help your sitch?
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3. He then went to he PC after dinner and used the PC I did walk by the office to let the dogs out and I saw he has the bank website up. Then later he had a car website up. So then why delete the history. This is just so frustrating.
Why in the heck is he looking at cars if he's on the verge of leaving? This and some of the other stuff you've posted makes me wonder if he's in MLC. If you suspect he is, then protect yourself financially because many MLCers totally lose regard for money issues and will drain accounts and run up CCs on frivolous things. A prudent person would start saving money if they're planning on leaving. Someone looking at cars in this sitch doesn't come off to me as prudent.
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I really feel like he is doing everything in his power to irritate me so much that I make the choice to leave so he does not have to.
You certainly could be right. If so then you're playing right into it.
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I just do not know what to do?
DB. Detach. GAL. Don't worry about what he's doing, who he's talking to, what he's sneaking around about. You really need to act "as if" everything is just fine with you the way things are. No snooping, no looking over his shoulder, no key loggers. Find contentment in yourself. Do what you need to do to get there. Show him someone content, happy and positive. Don't let him send you down the roller coaster.
