Hi Shelby,
I am new to the Divorced fold, but your post made me think about how I would react if my x ever made moves to reconcile. I think Kml especially has given some sage advice. I sounds like you are in the drivers seat here, and can afford to put some real thought into how you want to handle it. When you parted, was it on decent terms, somewhat amicable, or accrimonious? Curious? Either way, sounds like a potential postive!!
Gunny


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!