you get to call her out on crap you weren't supposed to before. : )
I'd suggest a nicer way of doing it.
I've done it with my wife, she does it with me.
As an aside, not sure if it is prevelant here.
I came across some proof of the affair, that I was pretty positive I had gotten rid of, on an old CD; when I was going through a stack of them. Email's.
Took me about an hour to calm down. In now way shape or form was that my wife today, or even my wife a year or two ago...but I still had to calm down.
Shredded the CD.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK