Thanks ladies! Just dropping in before pre-dinner drinks. I'm really tired so won't be staying up late. Still not feeling 100%.
So I txt H this morning "Awww, thanks H, what a lovely txt to wake up to x' I hope that was non comittal enough... Doesn't seem to be txtng before work, maybe there's no signal. Who knows? Staying dimmer whilst I'm away. No expectations. I can survive without txts!