I have been all over this site and sadly it hasn't helped much. A lot of bitter people trapped in that bitterness.
Your post has helped me more than you will ever know.
It is REALLY easy to become bitter. You can see it in people's posts and attitudes. It comes across in advice, you can almost tell without needing to ask if that person is still married or not, or even with another person. Sometimes, I can actually empathize with the WAS, based upon the level of bitterness.
NOT being bitter.
That is a choice.
It's a hard one, but I believe a better one.
And for the record, I am in no way saying that anyone on this thread falls into the bitter category. I have to currently approve NotSureWhatToDo's threads and that is how I saw the post and wanted to comment on it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
