Thank you so much for the good advice. I have a question for you. After screwing up royally by telling her goodbye and asking her to reconsider counceling, I decided to do the 180 mentioned in the book. I had to talk with my D last night, and I didn't speak with W. W sends an email asking if I am upset with her. Why would someone that has filed for D, served papers and have a court date for next week care if I am upset with her?
First, I'm so sorry for you and your situation. I know this isn't easy.
Your wife is noticing your behaviors. This is a good thing.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
