Thank you so much for the good advice. I have a question for you. After screwing up royally by telling her goodbye and asking her to reconsider counceling, I decided to do the 180 mentioned in the book. I had to talk with my D last night, and I didn't speak with W. W sends an email asking if I am upset with her. Why would someone that has filed for D, served papers and have a court date for next week care if I am upset with her?


BD: 8/20/2012
W Files: 8/23/2012
S: 8/25/2012 (I moved out)
D Final: 3/5/2013