Anette:

I think the sad thing for me will be if I haven't resolved any of these issues and I am still writing about the pain on 3/27/2005. I am so glad that I found this web site. For me it really helps. Although, I am determined not to let another year go by without making a decision. Life is too short.
Try talking Annette. I wish I could say from experience that it will help, I can't, but it's worth a try. Good Luck. Katie