Wow, SD, that was a great post about anger. Thank you
I will do what you suggested to process it all further. In the light of day, I can see that some of my thoughts are illogical.. wanting her to finally talk to me about our M and then when she finally does, getting angry about what she said... not fair.... and that might be an unspoken rule she felt during the M.
i will take a look at the underlying needs.. i think that will be big as I know I lost myself in the R and looked to her to fill needs that would be much healthier for me to fill for myself..
thank you SD, you have given me a lot of think about your superhero cape is very bright today!
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13