i thought you handled the winter break conversation quite well. he is seeing that you are continuing to live your life and doing well, that is good, i think.
perhaps it will take the pressure off of him to allow him to honestly consider his choices. (and realize what a fool he is being )
as it relates to trust in the future... i was just thinking that though we have had this wound and its impact on trust... we also have learned to be AWARE... and so that instead of responding blindly to future situations where trust is involved... we will know what is happening and that awareness will give us the ability to sit with the feelings and make a different choice..
at least that is what i am hoping happens
i hope that you are so proud of your growth and strength bc it is there, we see it!! love ya, busting... (((((((( )))))))))
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
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