Interesting developments. I actually haven't tried being less available, yet. I had some really upsetting news the other day. Basically, I was beside myself crying. Yesterday, I just could't seem to stop crying. I actually called H. He came over and basically just sat with me and even hugged me. It was nice. Weird for him I think but I felt like it was a big step for him. He had been refusing all touch which is most definitely one of his love languages. I also think words of affirmation is perhaps his primary one though. I have been putting great effort into words of affirmation for him. Obviously, I am reading 5 LL again. So in a nutshell, I am going to keep that up when I speak with him but am definitely going to cool off on contact. I am in a better place as far as he and I are concerned but lots of stress otherwise. So I really need to be careful not to take those frustrations out on other people.
