Quote: maybe i'm just grumpy and tired this morning, but i've been wondering why i'm not more optimistic. Right now i see that W is not doing this for me, but to avoid losing me...ie. under threat. Am i making a dumb distinction?
not really dumb, but perhaps your not looking at it the right way.
part of what you want is w to show love for you right? sure you want it to be in the form of physical desire for you but the fact that she's taking steps (even if small) to find a solution or reason for the problem is a good things and should speak to you. If you feel these attempts on her part are based on a threat well that too isn't such a bad thing...after all if she didn't care for you or love you a threat wouldn't get her to do anything.
