My STBX had me served at work 27 months ago and moved out of the house that night, and into his Girlfriends house. He has not moved the divorce forward at all in this time.

Monday afternoon I received a message from him pretty much saying he made a mistake, he has regrets and he wants to know if he screwed it up so bad that our marriage is unrecoverable" ?

I am shocked and speechless !

He sent another message saying he is moving out and temporarily moving in with his mother. He wants to do counseling and whatever it takes and eventually renew our vows.

I don't even know what to think or feel at this time. I have not started dating in this time although I was getting ready to put myself out there.
I have been working myself these past 2 years i started running. Doing 5k and 10k's making new friends.

So confused right now.


Me:43
H:43
T:20 YRS
M:15 YRS
Bomb: 6/9/08
Bomb#2 7/6/10
Served with papers at work 7/13/10
DD:14, DD:11