No Rick it does not sound "cruel"...sounds to me like you taking control over YOUR life.

You, your D and BOTH of your well being is all that matters right now. XW made her choices...and now Rick you make yours.

God Bless,
Eric

"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans