we truly are the same in so many aspects of our personal demons and dysfunctions.
And IMO, this acknowledgment can only happen when you truly step back from the craziness and acknowledge our roles in the failure of the M. A lot times people will not do that level of work, so they leave the M (LBS or WAS) angry and bitter, which IMO, they carry through out their life until finally dealt with.
When you finally come to accept that....1) both people played a role in the demise 2) that sometime chit happens that is out of our control 3) if it is a "crisis", well then neither party had a choice in the matter and finally that....4) life does move foward, it continue to change and evolve for all us but we all have a responsibility to ourselves to make our lives what we want them to be...Well then you can really begin to forgive and heal.
I applaude you for digging!
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
