Thanks Galbaby. That's the word "take it slow". Our arrangement during this ordeal is to take turns in MBR, last night was W turn. Even though she gave me an option I slept in the extra bed in s13 room.

I'm not 100% sure she wants to ML but there are signs or perhaps it's more of the little physical touch here and there. She hasn't let me caress her like this since the bomb last year. It's always been the cold rejection.

Yes I will build up on this, it's only been 3 days since I notice these positives. I don't want to get set up and get hurt by her if this is just her roller coaster ride.

I will continue to give her space and back off. I will continue to be spontaneous on the physical aspect if the sitch allows it.

I'll see what today brings.

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.